It’s the last day of the year 2018! I thought to myself what better time to share this poignant but not the last piece of my mind if not today after many days and weeks of postponement? I mean, it’s been a long and eventful year with so many ignorant, myopic and patriarchal expressions and …
Category: FUCK THE PATRIARCHY
LET THE PANTS BREATHE
I cannot for the life of me understand how we got to this place where being female is so difficult💁. For an African woman, being female is never a walk in the park. It’s like a humanized version of shame that you not only have to be for the rest of your life but also …
The Unending Misogynistic Marriage Conversations
It’s hard not to feel humorless, as a woman and a feminist, to recognize misogyny in so many forms, some great and some small, and know you’re not imagining things. It’s hard to be told to lighten up because if you lighten up any more, you’re going to float the fuck away. The problem is …
THE MARRIAGE NARRATIVES
Can I just say that apart from the fact a man is entitled to his opinions, some of y’all social media Judges need to take a chill pill and calm down with the Timi Dakolo lashing out. . . #mansgotpoints! Two days ago, I woke up and had read one of these gist on Instablog9ja …