• Let's talk about it/Keeping It Real,  motivation

    SURVIVING SOCIAL MEDIA IDENTITY CRISIS

    Have you ever woken up one morning and had to feel like every moment of the life we live is ending up just for the gram? More like the reason we live life, enjoy all those beautiful moments and sour ones somewhere in the middle has for the gram in it? Well, I did; not just in one morning but for more than a couple of mornings, afternoons and nights. Towards the end of last year, I started going through a phase of depression that ended up chronic by the time the new year began and before I knew it, I realized I was in this phase where I had…

  • Let's talk about it/Keeping It Real,  Personal Diaries

    The Unending Misogynistic Marriage Conversations

    It’s hard not to feel humorless, as a woman and a feminist, to recognize misogyny in so many forms, some great and some small, and know you’re not imagining things. It’s hard to be told to lighten up because if you lighten up any more, you’re going to float the fuck away. The problem is not that one of these things is happening; it’s that they are all happening, concurrently and constantly. – Roxane Gay, Bad Feminist. Hi! It’s been a while. . . oops! Scratch that! I know that doesn’t cut it right. Too simple a greeting for being so far away from the blog for that long🤦. I’m…

  • Personal Diaries

    DON’T GIVE ROOM

    spread positivity and good vibes. stay away from things that can trigger depression. please take care of your mental health, we’ve got dead men walking the streets lately. – @Blackprowriter (IG) Has it ever crossed your mind that some people do really enjoy frustrating others and seeing them frustrated? Yes, I do believe there are people like that and I don’t know what they call them but I know I do not want them in my life. I had a totally different blog post planned for today but on the contrary, I decided to allow myself to be an umpire and call the shots. I feel this blog is more…

  • Kebbi Diaries,  MY NYSC ARCHIVE

    DEAR NORTHERN OTONDOS

    I know it’s been a while since I posted here but first, yayyyy! Congratulations to the latest otondos in town. I know somebody is probably feeling like why otondo but well, I’m sure otondo sounds better than hearing a Northern Soldier call you a white fowl believe me and moreover, you guys haven’t been sworn in yet, so, you are unofficially a corp member. Second, a little diversion. . . I know I said something about bringing back a series, I didn’t forget and also, it feels so unbearable having to stay this long to post another blog post but mehn, I have been quite engaged. A lot has been…

  • BEAUTY TIPS

    5 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T BE DOING AGAIN IN MID/LATE TWENTIES

    To keep the body in good health is a duty… otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear. – Buddha Being female/woman is one beautiful and life changing experience that comes with unfolding, metamorphosing and becoming. Today, I’m not even going to be talking about the psychological, mental, physical or emotional aspects to mothering and all, I’m gonna be talking about beauty tips! Well, this right here is kinda a first for me ’cause I like to leave this kind of stuff to the beauty/makeup bloggers but hellow, I am a lifestyle blogger too and most importantly, I realized talking female, talking women, speaking gender…