• Personal Diaries

    I’m Running

    Looking through November 3rd, 2017 to November 3rd, 2018, I can tell you that a lot did happen in that span of a year. There were lots of lessons learnt, some kept and others discarded and one of the lessons I had to learn was understanding that, sometimes distractions look like pressure and sometimes, when the pressure becomes too much, you unconsciously find yourself questioning and vetting your values, precepts, modus operandi and the likes. Then you submit yourself to the overwhelming pressure and you begin to think that you aren’t running your race and when you actually feel like you are, you begin to question how you run your…

  • Let's talk about it/Keeping It Real

    On Religion and Mental Slavery (Part 1): Politics and The Church

    Religion is the opium of the masses. ~Karl Max   Guys, before you serve me that look, I know I said what I said about my next post but mehn, I can’t help this one – so, I’m moving the episode to next week whether y’all believe it or not but I’ll advise you do. So, a happy weekend to y’all! How’s the weekend going? Here, it’s going well and I’ve got deadlines caving in on me! Massive deadlines but I know I’m gonna come through. Shall we get to today’s post already? First, the moment I decided to write this post, I knew that some very religious people will…

  • Monthly Stocktaking,  Personal Diaries

    Rediscovering My Romanticism

    Let the romantic minds meet the romantic cities and after that the candle of romanticism shines on earth like a sun! ~ Mehmet Murat Ildan. Every opportunity to publish content on a platform that makes my brand is always something of immense joy and fulfillment to me. I realized through the journey of discovering and rediscovering who I am that no matter how sloppy or out of hand things get or become, I could never give up! I could never walk out on my own dreams, pull down the journey of many lonely years that made who I am still becoming or quit and let the not so awesome parts…

  • Let's talk about it/Keeping It Real,  Personal Diaries

    The Unending Misogynistic Marriage Conversations

    It’s hard not to feel humorless, as a woman and a feminist, to recognize misogyny in so many forms, some great and some small, and know you’re not imagining things. It’s hard to be told to lighten up because if you lighten up any more, you’re going to float the fuck away. The problem is not that one of these things is happening; it’s that they are all happening, concurrently and constantly. – Roxane Gay, Bad Feminist. Hi! It’s been a while. . . oops! Scratch that! I know that doesn’t cut it right. Too simple a greeting for being so far away from the blog for that long🤦. I’m…

  • BEAUTY TIPS

    5 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T BE DOING AGAIN IN MID/LATE TWENTIES

    To keep the body in good health is a duty… otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear. – Buddha Being female/woman is one beautiful and life changing experience that comes with unfolding, metamorphosing and becoming. Today, I’m not even going to be talking about the psychological, mental, physical or emotional aspects to mothering and all, I’m gonna be talking about beauty tips! Well, this right here is kinda a first for me ’cause I like to leave this kind of stuff to the beauty/makeup bloggers but hellow, I am a lifestyle blogger too and most importantly, I realized talking female, talking women, speaking gender…